not a real update, but...

if you want to see pictures of my current sewing project, here it is. I need advice, too, so even if you don't do cross-stitch, tell me what I should do!

Also: I was invited to three weddings between late April and this coming weekend this year. I have not been invited to a single wedding since my own, five years ago. I think all my friends just turned into grown-ups. (Insert mutterings about how marriage does NOT equal adulthood and all the issues with the institution of marriage and whatever.)